Picture this: An 11-year-old boy gathers his family to showcase an impression of his teacher and classmate. The room erupts in muffled laughter, but his aunt, Namya, shakes her head and says, “He’s not that great at it. Honestly, I wish he’d focus more on his studies than on becoming a content creator.”
Today, more and more children dream of becoming YouTubers, TikTok stars, and social media influencers. With online fame just a click away, it’s no wonder content creation seems like a dream job. But how should parents respond when their child says, “I want to be an influencer”?
To unpack this growing trend, we spoke with Dr. Prerna Kohli, clinical psychologist and founder of MindTribe.in.
💬 Why Are So Many Kids Drawn to Social Media Careers?
“Fame, recognition, and the constant visibility of influencers online make this lifestyle appealing,” says Dr. Prerna.
Children often perceive social media success as glamorous and effortless. But behind the filters and followings lies hard work—and parents need to help children understand the full picture.
🗣️ Open Conversations Are Crucial
Parents may feel uneasy about their child’s influencer ambitions, unsure whether to support or discourage them. Dr. Prerna suggests starting with open, honest dialogue:
- Ask what draws them to this path
- Talk through both the realities and risks of internet fame
- Share your own concerns without dismissing their interest
🤔 Should You Feel Guilty for Saying “No”?
Many parents wonder if they’re stifling creativity when they push back against content creation goals. Dr. Prerna says: Don’t feel guilty.
“Parental guidance is essential. Your role is to channel your child’s interests in a healthy, realistic direction.”
Support can come in many forms—help them create for fun, explore digital skills, or use their talents in school or hobbies. The goal is balance, not restriction.
🧭 The Importance of Honest Feedback
Blind praise can backfire. While positivity builds self-esteem, it’s just as important to give your child realistic feedback about their strengths and areas for growth.
“Honesty, paired with kindness, helps kids build resilience and understand their abilities better,” Dr. Prerna advises.
🌐 Teach Digital Responsibility from the Start
Even if you decide to support your child’s creative ambitions, be sure they learn:
- Ethical online behavior
- How to protect their privacy
- The mental health effects of public attention
- How to handle criticism and failure
Dr. Prerna emphasizes: “Guidance doesn’t end with saying yes or no—it continues with educating children about the digital world they want to enter.”
✨ Final Thought
Whether or not your child becomes a social media influencer, the journey can be an opportunity to teach life skills, build self-awareness, and strengthen your connection with them. Stay engaged, stay grounded, and always lead with empathy.
