Potty training rarely goes perfectly—80% of kids hit snags. Here’s how to tackle 12 common issues with patience and expert-backed strategies:
1. Resistance to Sitting on the Potty
- Signs they’re not ready: Hiding during bowel movements, ignoring soiled diapers.
- Fix: Pause training for 2-4 weeks, then reintroduce the potty as a choice.
2. Frequent Accidents
- Why it happens: Bladder/bowel control develops gradually (often slower for pee than poop).
- Fix: Stay calm—say “Oops! Let’s try again next time” instead of scolding. Use waterproof mattress covers.
3. Playing with Poop
- Fix: Neutrally say “Poop belongs in the potty” and redirect to sensory play (clay, slime).
4. Fear of Flushing
- Fix: Let them flush toilet paper scraps first. Try a standalone potty chair to avoid loud sounds.
5. Regression (Back to Diapers)
- Common triggers: New sibling, moving houses, illness.
- Fix: Reassure and simplify—“Diapers are okay for now. We’ll try again soon!”
Nighttime Training Tips
- Limit drinks 1 hour before bed.
- Use waterproof “training pants” and celebrate dry mornings.
- Keep a bedside potty for midnight urges.
Pro Tip: For stubborn cases, try the “naked weekend” method—let them play pants-free near the potty to boost body awareness.
When to Call the Doctor:
- Pain during urination/bowel movements
- No progress after 3+ months of consistent effort