At the SXSW Conference on International Women’s Day, Meghan Markle opened up about the joys and struggles of motherhood, online abuse, and her gratitude for Prince Harry’s unwavering support.
The panel discussion, titled “Breaking Barriers, Shaping Narratives: How Women Lead On and Off the Screen,” featured Meghan alongside journalist Katie Couric, actress Brooke Shields, and sociologist Nancy Wang Yuen. Moderated by Errin Haines of The Amendment podcast, the discussion focused on women’s leadership and the evolving role of mothers in today’s digital age.
💬 Meghan on Motherhood and Online Abuse
Meghan candidly recalled the harsh reality she faced during her pregnancies with Archie and Lilibet.
“The bulk of the bullying and the abuse that I was experiencing in social media and online was when I was pregnant… and with a newborn with each of them.”
She reflected on how social media distorts motherhood, often presenting an idealized, polished version that new mothers compare themselves to—especially during late-night scrolls filled with sleeplessness and insecurity.
“It can be really dizzying for them to see this portrayal of motherhood that looks so perfect when we all know it’s not. We all know that it’s messy.”
👨👩👧👦 The Role of Prince Harry in Parenting
Meghan praised her husband’s active involvement in raising their children, describing him as a “hands-on dad” and a consistent source of emotional support.
“My husband is such a supporter of me and our family. That I don’t take for granted. That is a real blessing.”
She emphasized how having a supportive partner helps mitigate the emotional toll that public scrutiny and digital platforms can inflict on mothers.
🎙️ Prince Harry’s Take on Fatherhood
Prince Harry also shared a glimpse into his life as a dad during an interview on Good Morning America.
“The kids are growing up very, very fast. They’ve both got an incredible sense of humor and keep us grounded every single day.”
He acknowledged how fatherhood adds emotional depth to life, deepening his perspective and resilience.
“Being a dad certainly adds another emotional layer to it.”
🛡️ Meghan’s Call for Online Safeguards
In a digital world that often blurs the line between visibility and vulnerability, Meghan called for better protection for women and mothers online, advocating for greater awareness and accountability on social media platforms.
❤️ Final Thoughts
Through honesty and vulnerability, Meghan and Harry offer a relatable, human perspective on parenting, far from royal tradition. Their shared experiences highlight the importance of partnership, mental health, and authenticity in the modern parenting landscape.
